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You Know You’re Doing Something Right…

…When a nutjob decides to try and take you down a peg or two. Over the three years I’ve been a pro-Domme, I’ve probably encountered three such balmpots. Each one has some kind of aversion to being given the answer “No”, or told that I don’t / won’t accommodate their needs. And rather than respect my personal choice or have a sense of humour about my earlier blog post entitled ‘Wishful Thinking’, this latest self-adoring enquirer decided to go on the war path.

Before I let you have a hearty chuckle at his latest missive, I wanted to add a few nuggets of my own advice for subs to pass on to their Mistresses (or directly for the Mistresses, if I am lucky enough to have their attention too). All Dommes will hear from these lunatics and most just ignore them, however if You or your Mistress is particularly upset by a message she can do something about it.

Firstly, any message that YOU deem offensive, threatening or abusive can be forwarded to the police. Don’t think they’ll follow it up? Well, if you have the right contacts they most certainly will…doggedly. I’m fortunate to fall into that camp. Sending any message that is defined by the recipient as offensive or threatening is a crime. So the sender can be prosecuted, even if they claim to think it was a joke. Don’t think you can trace their IP address? The good news is that you most definitely can. If they hit your site to get your contact details (therefore you have an exact IP or several to choose from in their area), and you have a general IP trace simply using a home-installed program on your laptop, you can whittle it right down. Or, going back to the first point, the police can trace their IP no matter what the nutjob in question has done in an effort to disguise it. Are they from another country? If so and you have reported their activity to the police, they may face difficulty when re-entering the UK at Passport Control. So, all in all, it is most definitely worth making a fuss.

If nothing else, what I’ve written above should serve as a subtle warning to the author of the below email. He’s obviously so surprised that I refused to meet for a public footjob in Claridges that he threw caution to the wind!

Now for the funny bit…

Hi Missy,
I noticed you twitted that I am a slave and brought this into the public.
First of all I am not a slave and in my life I have had many more beautiful girls than you and did what ever I wanted to them for my pleasure, because I can afford it and you are not even a beautiful hooker too.
I just loved to take you out and put you in your place, because of your megalomania caused by these sick people demanding your services.
I am not sick like your clients and when I pay I am the boss .
Since you are charging money for your services you are the slave of my money.
I will now have to humiliate your public image now or start begging .
Your Master

Sent from my iPad